Sometimes people are so used to the way they do things that they don’t realize that they haven’t really done anything to promote a healthy marriage. It’s very much like taking the marriage and the spouse for granted, which is never good!
The first and most important thing is to realize that marriage takes work. If you aren’t working on bettering your marriage, you are probably going down the road of taking it and your spouse for granted.
I have a few questions for you:
- Do you like it when you are taken for granted?
- Are you doing anything extra–out of the ordinary–with or for your spouse?
I encourage you to do something extra for your spouse today or at least this week. It is amazing how an extra caring touch or an act of kindness will make you feel more loved and appreciated, valued even.
Then if you are brave enough, use the Love Nudge app and ask your spouse how loved they feel.
Until next time, God bless,